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- Men/women can never be trusted.
- Emotions are not valid, logical, or safe.
- I am just a doormat.
- Men must never show their emotions.
- I have to take care of everyone else, so I cannot take care of myself.
- I am just a bad person.
- It’s the way it’s always been and always will be.
- There is nothing I can do to make this relationship better.
- My spouse always ….
- My spouse never ….
- Love hurts, so it is better not to love
- No one understands me.
- It’s all hopeless!
- Talking about a problem never changes anything.
- If I keep my distance, no one will get hurt.
- I cannot change.
- My spouse will never change.
- Other people get what they want, but I never do.
- I must always be perfect.
- No one understands me.
- Talking about a problem never changes anything.
Tags: emotions, lies, Love, marriage, relationship